So i just bought a set of aftermarket fog lights that are suppose to be OEM direct fits.

I need a fog light relay, anybody know where i can pick one of these up? Do i just go down to the local Circuit City/radioshack and ask for an Xterra Fog Relay or are there universal relays?

excuse my lack of electrical knowledge.

Just a standard 12V 4-terminal relay that can handle the load the lights will put on 'em.