Madwoman, do you know what Psychological Projection is? This will be hard for you to understand given that neither the word "liberal" nor the word "deviant" is in it, but give it a shot:

"A defense mechanism in which the individual attributes to other people impulses and traits that he himself has but cannot accept. It is especially likely to occur when the person lacks insight into his own impulses and traits."

Does this mean anything to you? We can help you, but first you have to admit you have a problem.