I had the extreme opposite reaction to my ARB damage. I drilled 4 holes all the way through the ARB and frame and put on some 1/2"X4" grade 8 bolts, nuts, lock washers and washers. That f*cker Aint moving no more!! The hardware that ARB provides to nolt into the frame is a joke, if you are slightly off and try to tighten it, it strips the bolt, then the frame. If anything, at least my ARB lines up now..
When in doubt, Drill it!!