No you guys are right....been reading the Haynes manual on break here and I think this may actually be a possibility for me to do mostly all of this work.

I may have them do the basic oil and filter change cause I get it for free since I bought the X at that dealership.....but like Dean said maybe they can flush and refil the coolant system for me as well.

Other then that once I can amass all the filters and fluids I think i can do the rest. My Haynes manual even walks you through the visuals on what to look for.

I am going to make a list tonight on the tools and parts and fluids I need. Thanks Huey if you are 45 mins closer maybe I will take you up on that offer if you are available when I try and do this. Stay tuned I will try and post my list tomorrow of what tools/parts/fluids I need.