So I feel like a jerk...

I overreacted, and apologize to Ian and Carlton for the attack on their approach to the members of XOC. I'm a bit frustrated, concerned, and angry at the situation, and not realizing that the idea was to avoid another long thread of generalized complaints, I posted what I did here.

I apologize.

I talked to Carlton, he explained his motivation and wanted to make sure that My story was out for people to see, but avoid it being just a rant thread.

If Steve at Calmini wishes to respond here, Carlton has assured me he'll reopen the thread.
I hope Steve does, because IMHO Dave has put Calmini's reputation in jeopardy.

I have no ill will towards either Carlton or Ian, and things are good between us.