So I'm working on planning a wedding - hard enough to do, even harder from the middle of the desert. Decided to go looking for a website to assist or at least guide. My lass pointed me to theknot.com. I've been reading it and have noticed a major slant toward the bride. I kind of ignored it until today. They have a shopping list there. The word groom isn't even mentioned. They dedicate an entire section to the bride's attire and the only form of groom is in groomsmen. Now, in this so-called equal society, what kind of bullshit is this? Can anyone point me toward a separate but equal site, where the true minority in this country can get some realistic advice? If I went by the knot, I'd be showing up naked - and no one really wants to see that.