You can debate the "well my kids are this" or "my neighbors kids are that" till your blue in the face man. Im just asking the question of why???? You didnt answer that question for me. You said you have all this nice stuff and youve worked for your own home but couldnt all that have been done with one person staying and raising the kids???? From your above post it sounds like you have pawned the duty of raising your kids off on a daycare. Sounds like it was a good decision but who is raising your kid???

Tim