Congrats on the new X.
1. Any curing your paint needed to do has been done while your truck made its way to your driveway. I waxed within a week.
2. I would recommmend Meguiars products. Check out their website for a car care prescription and tips.
www.meguiars.com 3. Only wash your car yourself, by hand, if you care about the paint. Anything else is a risk. It's a lot easier to prevent spiderwebs and swirls than to get rid of them.
Hope this helps.
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Dave Lange ~ Super Black 2001 XE 4x2 Auto with 3pack ~ SWXC Member #26
Emma, vizsla, and Jimi, German shorthair ~
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