Here's a few ifs for you:

If you had shipped it when you said you were going to, we wouldn't have had a problem. (I told you that I was going away and you shouldn't blame me that you shipped it when it was too late for me to actually be there to receive it).

If you had given me the tracking numbers when you said you were going to, we wouldn't have had a problem because I could've contacted UPS and told them that I wasn't going to be there to receive the package.

If you'd actually packed the antenna as if it were going to be trucked somewhere (as opposed to putting it in a big box where it could repeatedly shift around and get damaged), we might not have had a problem because the antenna would have been in better shape.

The address that I gave you was not only good, but one that I've used many, many, many times as it's a backup location when I know that I might need it. So, that's a non-starter in my book. You, sir, if you feel it's appropriate to flame me on this issue should take a hard, fast look at yourself in the mirror because I tried to work with you, was in constant communication with you and did everything that I could to accomodate you - especially when you finally admitted that you'd sent the box 5 days after you said it would. You also took no action to protect the item in the box, so perhaps it went in to the box in good shape, but any person who's sent even one item through UPS knows that you NEED TO PACK THE FUCKING THING like it's going to get tossed around. I probably would've accepted the antenna without posting up here if it'd been in good shape. But, as it is now, it looks like some retard got his hands on it and decided to play baseball.