My experience with this subject comes from my son's high school days. He graduated last year. He and his friends never attended a high school dance. They, and many others, never attended such events due to the events and dances being an all black affair. We live in a neighborhood where the majority is white. The school majority was white.
Only the blacks would attend the dances. Less than 10% people attending where whites or philipinos.
Reason being....The only music played was rap. Gangs would come from Norfolk and Porstsmouth and wait outside looking for trouble. There were many fights and many more arrests each and every time.
He chose not to go because he is a good kid. He chose not to go because he hates rap. It had nothing to do with race. Once again, it all goes down to characteristics and integrity.
Why shouldn't these kids have their own dance with their own culture. They should be allowed to enjoy their prom as well.
I don't think race here is an issue.
The NAACP and CBW are the ones keeping the brother down. They are nothing more than a left-wing strongarm keeping the blacks in line and making them vote democratic. Ask any major successful and educated black man that very question. I am sure he would agree. They want you in the ghetto, they need you in the ghetto.