I have two kids and want more. My wife asked me to get a vasectomy and I said no. She had her tubes tied. She doesn't want anymore and I do. It's her body, if she wants to make it incapable of reproducing, that's her business. I however will be capable of suirting wigglers until I die. These genes are too good to keep all to myself. I think it is each individual's right to choose for their self. My aunt bugged my uncle to get a vasectomy for 3 years. He finaly agreed and she gave him his divorce papers when he got back from the doctor's office. That's another reason I wouldn't get one. But to each his or her own.