PNUTMNM,

Welcome to my world. Nothing pisses me off more than people telling my wife and I to have kids. I absolutely LOVE kids and we spoil our nieces and nephews rotten.

BUT..........our life style does not really need our own children in it so I took the plunge years ago to insure we have no accidents. Stand tough and do what makes the 2 of you happy.

There is nothing wrong with going the way you are. Period.