The gap isn't that bad, looks great! I want to add a 2 inch body lift but I don't want a huge gap between the bumper and grill.
You should paint your grill and headlight trim black, would look pretty sick! Just my 2 cents. Here's mine with painted grill, to give you an idea, would look good on your black X.
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