So your saying when just plugging in the 4pin adapter it does not output power for parking lights? Just brakes and signal? Not to be rude but you did remember to turn your headlights on correct? Man that seems like some dumb design. Blake if you want to come by i'm in se just off 205. We could try and figure something out but since the xterraparts site lists the individual part numbers it may be easier to just try and order those. Which dealer is it that you hate so much? I used to work for one (not nissan but one of the big name chain dealers).