1. the Xterra key has no chip (confirmed by dealer)
2. I sent the remote starter unit back to the company (I know a guy working their, helps ALOT) and there is nothing wrong with the unit, it must be my wiring. So when I get the unit back, I'm going to get a voltometer and see which wires aren't working and such.

I have alot going on with my car right now
- Sub/Amp install (which I'm making a new box)
- Grounding kit
- Mean Green Alternator
- Flowmaster 40

It's amazing how projects that I expect to last a couple of weeks spend taking up months! Owell I'm doing it for the learning process anyway