after some looking around,
i found that the led is not defective..
I fried a part of the factory alarm system.
they say its built cheap.. so i most likely fried a chip.

as for fixing it... well I believe this unit is part of the main ecu unit.. soo..new icu for a dimming light.. i dont think so :rolleyes:

I installed myself a dummy light going to the ignition. it starts when key is off.. and disables as soon as acc it on.

thanks for all the replies.