please explain the relavance of being a female and being blonde to the fact that you know nothing about autos?

I too am a woman, and blonde- WHO TF CARES I have platinum highlights in my hair as well, does that make me that much less capable of working on or knowing anything about cars/trucks!!?!?!?!

NOW! before you try and tell me you're not capable of using a camera because you're a girl and blonde- go outside and take a pic of the t-bar ends and post it to give us a better idea as to what you're concerned about. i've just asked a friend about this and he says that alittle grease is normal, but excessive could be an issue. go take a picture!