First post,,with me new Xterra 06 s 2x4..Great ..

I am going to ask the simple question that has been asked MANY times here. Be patient ,my wife and i split after 20 years recently and i just hit my second(I think) Mid -life crisis.

I ordered my AC 3" lift Rancho coil over shock and shaclkles for the back..I want to put some Rims and Tires. I like a little wider,and want to fill up well? 32x11.5 x ?? i hear 31"s look small..

I want a simple classic style baja rim and BFG"s (I think) ..Looking at a thousand pictures and ,well, confused..

Somebody right here,right now,coach me on this project?...
Thanks for patience with a suffering guy...