WOW thank you so much! That post that probably took you 2 hours really helped me out a lot. I am really leaning toward infinity reference and kappa. I heard them in the store and they sounded much better than the alpines that you also suggested. The deepest mounting depth you said you'd go was 4 1/8". The kappa's that you pointed out in your link are 3 7/8" depth.
Kappa tech specs Crutchfield doesnt show that they'll fit in the outfit my car area but I see that they're shallower than 4 1/8". They should fit without modification correct? As for the speakers you have in the front. They don't come with a crossover like the 6x9 kappa's do. My question is should I look at component sets that include crossovers? Kinda stumped on the front. As for the rear I lovvveee the Kappas. Thanks