I use amsoil... go to their web site and you can choose your vehicle and application (trans, diff, Xfer, etc.) and order it right there. Its expensive but I challenge anyone to say that something is better. But Mobile 1, royal purple, and red line (i think thats the name) are also very good.
Here is the link to the amsoil site to look for your particular vehicle's application
http://www.amsoil.com/scripts/runisa.dll?amsoiloaf:index