To add lights at the grill area, you can come straight up through the top of the stock bumper, and just sandwich/washer plate the pass through to stabilize the lights.
One bud also just had the wires in a loom go straight out through the grill openings, to the backs of the lights...no known problems.
(I understand that you understand that adding all that silly metal work, just to add lights, is stupid, albeit that you don't care.)
There is a license plate mount that fits two off road lights above and to either side of your license plate, I forget where I saw it...it would avoid castrating your approach angle to see where you're going at night, etc.
Also - in the stock fairing, on the new X's, there are pretty big holes that lights will fit into...some have taken advantage of that as well.
Good Luck!
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- TJ
2001 Xterra '03 VG33, SE 5 spd, 305/70/16's, Revolvers, UBSkidderz, Doubled AAL's, 3"SL/2"BL, winch/bumpers, skids, sliders, OBA, Snorkel, pine stripes....
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