this argument is like a Ford vs. Chevy argument.
AC, SLR, and Calmini arms all work under the same principle. For brute stregth, the Calmini arms are built differently - they're built with reinforced flat stock, not tube. The AC and SLR arms are tube. That said, they're all considerably stronger than stock upper arms and you'd have no worry of structural failure with any of them.
Alignment issues have been reported on all of them. I think this is often due to alignment shops not having any experience with an A-arm lift. Pick the arms from the company you want to do business with, and avoid single AAL's in the rear. AC and SLR both sell 3 leaf AAL systems, and Calmini's adds two leaves.