Age and how many children the person has, has no bearing on if the light should come on or not. It's a height/weight thing. If the person is not heavy enough, it can be worse to have the airbag go off. Just be sure to she wears her seatbelt.
Or...have her eat some more.
I don't think the seat belt has anything to do with it as if I sit in the passanger seat even without a seatbelt, the light still goes out.