nice to see a few more xterra owners from jersey. i think we need to try for another mod day again since it's getting nicer out. i think there are a couple people who need to get some work done.
manray - 76k miles isn't bad at all. i've got 91k on mine and haven't had any problems yet besides for what i've done offroading.
soul - with you're year, you'll need a PML to get 32" tires to fit and tires should be your first upgrade most people will say. you can order this
http://www.purenissan.com/heavy_duty_shackles.htm for the PML (do a search in suspension for more info). if you plan on offroading at all, i would get the sliders next. they are a little pricey though so start saving now