heh, i'm opening myself up to a lot of flak but hey, if you cant laugh at yourself, who can you laugh at?

For a washing/cleaning regimin i like to keep my X looking good so i wash it once a week (navy bases rock in that they've all had a car wash area that i've been to). i do a wash, windex of windows, armor all the inside plastic & tireshine the wheels every other wash. i want to wax it every oil change (to keep easy track of it instead of 3 months) but i didnt buy my wax till after the first oil change & i broke my wrist for my second oil change . is this overkill or just new car pride? this IS my first new car after all. BTW, was doing some wax search & how is zymol not wax? IE if its not wax what is it and is it a good substitute for applying wax & buffing off?