I live in the Raleigh area as well. I love Wilmington. The best way I could discribe it is, "Wilmington is a small town with all the comforts of a big town". The beaches down there are awesome. The people are great. There is lots to do and see.

One movie Brad didn't mention that was made in Wilmington is "Maximum Overdrive".. GREAT MOVIE!!

I would seriously consider moving down there myself.

Good Luck, and please let us know what you decide.