May 17-18th look to be the best because the next two are the weekends before/after Memorial day.
On the pets issues this is what their site says
1. bring into or possess within a state park a pet or other domesticated animal, unless the animal is secured by a leash not exceeding six feet in length, or confined in a vehicle, or to permit an animal to enter into or remain in a unit of the state park unless so secured;
I agree with Roger, the more the merrier.
Roger no tent camping??? wimp!!