I'm an idiot, let's put that out there first.

I need to replace the driver's side headlight on my 2000 X, and because of the aforementioned idiocy, I'm having a real bitch of a time removing the electric connector to even start the process. The manual implies you should push down on it; ?? I don't know. I spent twenty minutes jiggling it and no progress was made.

Any help would be much appreciated,

Ben