Mostly_Harmless does have a great point and I agree, if they wanna be gay and deal with everthing that goes with it, go ahead, but don't expect society to entirely except flaming homosexuallity in every aspect of life because traditions die hard ... gay marraige in Canada is absolutle an abomination and should never have made it to the supreme courts but our government is a group of nutless cowards ... in regards to the military, basically do what you are told because that is part of the job description, if you don't like it go work security at Walmart