i cropped off the end of your post and honestly didnt read it... you completely ignored my explaination of why it was complex... otherwise you never would have written your post.

seriously its a view point thing...

if being Gay is an inate genetic quality... like having blue eyes... then they deserve the right to marry and get the benefits associated with it.

If being gay is a choice then the do not.

the problem is in peoples opinion of what makes someone gay