Ok who else here:
-has been to a Gay bar?
-Been in a band sharing a hotel room everynight on tour with a gay Keyboardist?
-Have A gay Man as you Childrens "god"father(in name only, its about making sure they are OK is anything should happen to us... and to make sure there is a moderator in any family custody BS, not about a relatrionship with the Non-existant)
-Worked at an Industrial Club(a common hang out amongst the Gay and Openminded)

I think I can say I've seen them "in their element" and they are people... just people like anyone else... well maybe not Like madman... but it takes a lot of work to be that scared of the world