Ok i was reading up on the dyi maintanence forum and i discoverd that my v6 only held 3.5 quarts and i just changed it the day before and put in 5 quarts. It was dusk when i changed it and couldn't see the oil on the wire dipstick. today i checked it and sure enough it was way high. so i drained 1 1/2 quarts out and she's perfect, thanks for the good info otherwise i would be looking for some seals