Hi adam we have never meet but i have been reading and keeping up with the post. I would like to tell you how sorry i am for your lost. I use to live in Whittier which is just out of L.A. and I have been in a couple of earthquakes and I know how it hard it can be on a family. I was wondering do you know what caused the fire?. It is amazing how much comfort you can find in your kids even when they do not know what is going on. It is reassuring life goes on and things will be fine. Best of luck to you and your family. Scott