Its urban. The good: you are right down the street from Fort Shafter. The bad that is the middle of Kalihi. Lots of first generation Filipinos and Micronesian. Not that there is anything wrong with that but those will be your neibhors. So get used to smelling fried fish, and chicken adobo.. If you can find a place in Mililani you will be pretty good off. You will still be in traffic but it's not nearly as bad. If she is in Sand Island try and check out Kaimuki and Makiki. Its in town but you will be pretty darn close to Sand Island.